You need to make decisions about your business and your well-being. Enjoy what you have in the present, plan for something better in the future and work towards it. As truth said, on the personal side everything else will work itself out. Right now I see the tail wagging the dog so to speak. What's worse, that "tail" has left.
Don't make these kinds of decisions until your head is screwed on straight (put the girl out of your mind)...or you'll just kick yourself later.
FOR SALE:
Stasis Tracksports 500F/600R (click picture below)

Just arrived...
2005.5 A4 Avant 2.0T Quattro 6MT
APR 91/93/100 | APR Exhaust | 19" BBS RS-GT's | Carbonio | Partridge-in-a-pear-tree
Others:
>>2001 S4 sold
>>2000 A4 sold
*** September 11th, 2001 - Never Forget ***